woman-can't-orgasm-tense-muscles her creative inhibitions in bed, and it helps her learn exactly how and where she likes to be touched.
"It was really hard for me to orgasm so I'd tell my boyfriend, 'It's OK, he is moving in and out at this angle, it will stimulate the clitoris," she says.
WebMD's sexpert Louanne Cole Weston, PhD, reveals the two-part trick to having an orgasm. About 10% of women have never had an orgasm -- either with a partner or during masturbation. The type of tension that helps women reach orgasm is muscle tension (myotonia).